A bit of relationship advice today, man to man, from someone who has been married for 10 years and dated before that. A woman who yells and screams at you in a demeaning way is unworthy of dating you. After her pathetic outburst in a Florida airport, I would immediately terminate the relationship.
Girlfriend Unloads on Boyfriend At Florida Airport…Dude, Run!
A couple missed their flight in Fort Lauderdale Airport (FLL) in Florida. Let’s assume, for argument’s sake, that it was the boyfriend’s fault. The woman is captured on video screaming at him in a profanity-laced tirade:
“You dumbf****! Because of you. Like literally because of you. You are the most r******* person I have ever met in my life! I hate you!”
The argument becomes so heated that airport security personnel approach the couple to intervene. The guy was featured calmly explaining that the two were “very stressed” (no kidding…).
Woman has screaming meltdown on her boyfriend at the Fort Lauderdale Airport in Florida.
The boyfriend sat in misery as the woman humiliated him in front of travelers.
“You’re a f**king loser, I hope you drop de*d.”
“You dumbf**ker! Because of you. Like literally because of… pic.twitter.com/oaJG9wfuDJ
— Collin Rugg (@CollinRugg) July 12, 2024
(NSFW)
An outburst like that shows a potential range of negative character traits ranging from a lack of self-control to narcissism to a more disturbing mental disorder.
Thankfully for the guy, they are not married yet and I would see as an opportunity to go separate ways. Yes, we all have bad days, but this crosses the line and is so over-the-top vicious and embarrassing that I view it as a deal-breaker.
Any enduring relationship is built on forgiveness and love covers a multitude of sin…but seeing that the two are not yet legally hitched (at least I hope not), the outburst presents such a fundamental disconnect that it seems far better for both parties not to further try to salvage what has already been contaminated.
“There are many fish in the sea” may be a trite cliche, but is is true…and I can guarantee that if she acts this way in public there is a pattern that undergirds it and potentially far worse private behavior.
In short: hey bro, run.
(hat tip: View From The Wing)
Much good advice distributed from this website. This might be the best advice yet.
Understandable, he probably used the wrong credit card for groceries.
We live in a culture raising a generation of simps. Masculinity is considered a negative now.
Great advice MK. Man up and take charge gentlemen.
Could the guy be her brother or another relative? Either way, the woman is super unhinged and should get herself some mental health checkups and treatment.
I think she’d be a good match for you.
I had thought you as a CIS-presenting male would find her to be “the bomb” as part of a desperate heterosexual-presenting maleness.
Given the bad Trojan horse you wish upon me, I will look the gift horse in the mouth and turn it back your way.
Just FYI, no one who utters the term “cis-presenting” should ever be taken seriously
Thank you for being so serious about the comment, seriously.
CIS. Says everything about you anyone needs to know. Get a life already.
Was I mistaken to think you liked Putin and his CIS?
You’ve got the wit and cleverness of Joe Biden at 9 PM
Maybe he’s both. It’s Florida.
Modern society expects men to be in the customer-service role of the relationship. Women are now the customer, and some customers berate their waiter.
This is flipped from the way things have historically been, but this power dynamic is not healthy no matter which sex has the upper hand.
He needs to ask the question :”Wie wird dieses Morgen sein
Sinnlos oder voller Sonnenschein?
Maybe not married, but more importantly, I hope they didn’t already procreate ….
@GUWonder raises a valid point about the guy maybe not being her better half. In any case, time to get far, far away from her.
If it had been me, I’d have turned to her and said “We’re done!”. Next, I’d have walked off to the ticketing counter and changed my flight no matter the up cost. There’s no way I would have been on the same flight as that lunatic. That said, I wouldn’t have been in a relationship with her at all because something tells us this isn’t her first outburst. She needs in-depth mental therapy.
There’s a 1978 pop rock song “Time for Me to Fly”, that seems apropos for the young man whose (presumed) GF is treating him worse than a rented mule.
seems very young and immature…Too young for a serious relationship
Also too old to not know better than to behave like a foul-mouthed version of a tamper-throwing, poorly-handled two-year old. She seems like a dictatorial evil older sister type or spoiled daughter type whose parents failed to guide her into being a decent person and understand there are appropriate ways to respond to challenges and inappropriate ways to respond to the same should not happen under any circumstances.
What does it take for the police to consider giving an angry lunatic a citation for disturbing the peace or disorderly conduct at FLL? While Florida’s government freaks out about children learning that a school kid may have two male parents in their household, maybe the authorities there should freak out about children being exposed to verbal/pschological violence like this and the ability of a (possibly) heterosexual female like this to end up as a parent with this kind of crazy temper.
@matthew, is this incident old, like really right around Christmas time old?
I see what appear to be Christmas wreaths hanging from some of the walls? I was recently through at least two terminals at FLL and I didn’t remember seeing Christmas wreaths hanging from the walls still.
Maybe they are something else and I am completely wrong.
She’s lucky airline staff or a pilot didn’t declare her unfit to fly that day, wouldn’t want someone that angry sharing my little tin can at 30k feet.
This isn’t about men being simps or women being awful. It’s about two people not having the common sense and decency to resolve their private issues in private. That said, it seems to be endemic in today’s America that we all get to say what we want, when we want in the manner we want; no matter how inappropriate the venue, context or vocabulary. We have become a more trashy, quarrelsome and aggressive society, treating each other with contempt, disrespect and hostility as the first go-to reaction. Perhaps the man should have been more vigorous in his self-defense and the woman’s tirade was completely uncalled for in a public space but none of us knows the back-story or the trigger(s) for her outburst.
Maybe the Tweeter Rugg is trying to run up his audience numbers to peddle his political messaging?
Rugg’s on an influence-peddling campaign and trying to expand the audience for his pro-Trump messaging.
I felt embarrassed just watching how she was screaming at him! Self entitled people today just shocks me! Glad that he remained calm and hope and pray that he leaves her.
What everyone on all these blogs don’t understand…. Crazy is sexy. Like, the crazier, the more wild. And she’s batshit crazy (if this isn’t staged)
Probably the only time I’ll ever say someone is better off taking it in the a## from Aaron.
I will never understand this urge you had to share your graphic sexual fantasies about someone else, but I’ll just chalk it up to you wanting attention and getting a rise out of sharing TMI.
Great advice. Women are the greatest reducing agents known to man.