Honest Reflections On America’s 250th Birthday
I sat down on July 4th to write my final reflection about the 250th anniversary of America’s independence, but I hit a wall…the sort of writer’s block that is typically very foreign to me. I chatted with ChatGPT about it…utter rubbish. I so wanted to offer a positive message that was not shallow or trite…and I could not come up with anything.
I’m going to try again here, writing rather contemporaneously, and rather than try to keep it positive, I’m going to keep it honest, because it is the truth that shall set us free, not rose-colored glasses fraught with sentimentality that hides the reality that is visible to everyone who seeks it.
My previous essays on my love for America were quite genuine: I love this country and love the American experiment. I also love our great potential to rise above division and to work together to accomplish great things, which I will return to below.
We live in a very divided age, but from the great Jefferson-Hamilton debate to the slave debate to the reluctance of America to enter both World Wars, to the great racial reconciliation of the 1960s…we’re hardly unique in our division and even now under a narcissistic, piggish dotard who styles himself as king, the state of our union is far stabler than it was during the civil rights movement and Vietnam era just one generation ago.
I’d love to say we are not a violent nation, but we must reckon with our history of violence. The assassination attempts against the current White House occupant, whether staged or real, come from a line long of violence that traces back to Abraham Lincoln, James Garfield, William McKinley, and John F. Kennedy…and those are just the presidential assassinations that were successful.
We are a violent people that glorifies violence in our culture and the Pandora’s box of personal firearms makes this a daunting problem to solve.
I’d love to say we are not a hateful nation, but we must reckon with our history of hate. Our history is complex, but full of sin like the Trail of Tears, the kidnapping and forced enslavement of human beings, Japanese internment during World War II, and a systematic subjugation of black people. For the ruling class, it came down to the hubris that they were better than other people that at its foundation is driven by the lust for power and wealth, a problem that has flummoxed humanity since the very beginning.
Two present-day examples. Look at the reaction to Justice Barrett’s vote to affirm birthright citizenship, a Constitutional principle that has been fixed for 150 years. Right wing populists foaming at the mouth in outrage, pointing to her black adopted children as “smoking gun” evidence that she “hates” this country. Look at the bigotry of the left in denying the right of Israel to exist or shockingly opposing interracial marriage, as Darializa Avila Chevalier condemned black men for “fetishizing ugly colonizer women.” And yet that bigot is likely to be the next Congresswoman from New York’s 13th Congressional District.
We cannot just pat ourselves on the back and say that we’re doing great. But if my analysis stopped there, it would be woefully incomplete.
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I’ll never forget the unity I saw on display in the day’s after the September 11, 2001 attacks. It was a coming-of-age moment for me to see the nation rally together…almost instantly…and remains a stain upon President Bush–who I proudly served in the White House as my first job out of university–that he funneled that political capital toward a war of choice in Iraq rather than a call to public service that could have transformed this country into a more perfect union. Indeed, it was his foreign policy blunders, as well-intentioned as they were, that led to the current iteration of the GOP.
Perhaps I’m kidding myself…when have we ever as a nation been unified for more than a brief period? Still, we see the potential in certain moments and I yearn for the next such moment, hoping that it does not take another attack to occur.
Let’s turn now to the positive and proudly recognize that his country has done so much more than show potential as it transformed itself from a renegade British colony to the most powerful nation on earth.
Do we as a nation struggle with violence and hate? Yes, as do all people if they are being honest. But even if the last 1-5 years seems like a setback, the U.S. continues to become a more perfect union, striving to ensure every person has equal justice under law and giving everyone unparalleled opportunity to achieve great things through hard work.
I’m not a Marxist and wholly refute the idea that workers are enslaved by their masters who own the means of production via the opium of religion…the American story is one of innovation, determination, and a flurry of successes: rags-to-riches stories that have transformed the world in very positive ways.
We are at our best not when we export democracy ourselves, but when we live it out here in a way in which we are faithful to the idea of being a shining city on the hill. We are an “exceptional” nation not in the sense of being better than others (by many metrics, we are simply are not), but in terms of the exceptional nature of what we have done…and are continuing to do.
The American sacrifice of fighting in World War I and World War II and then helping to rebuild Japan and Western Europe after the war cannot be overstated, nor can the Cold War investments that eventually led to a domino-effect of communist governments collapsing in Europe and topped the Soviet Union. The conditions that reward hard work have led to amazing discoveries and advances leading to improved quality of life for the entire world. Economic disparity is a perennial problem, but even the poorest state of Mississippi is wealthier than the United Kingdom on a per-capita basis.
Look at how World Cup visitors to the USA have been astonished by how nice this country is…our cities, our towns, our parks, our food, and most of all, our people. That did not spring up organically, but marks the culmination of 250 years of an experiment in ordered liberty that has promoted human flourishing in ways that still make the U.S. the envy of the world.
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I’ve traveled the world (over 150 countries) and if I’m being honest, there are things I deeply love about other nations that the U.S. could learn from, particularly in Northern Europe. We could do health care better far better in this country and the work-life balance in Scandinavia strikes me as far superior to the US, without compromising productivity. Our infrastructure in the United States is aging and inadequate. As an attorney, I despise how litigious our society is.
But there’s nowhere I’d rather run my business than in the United States and I strongly value our First Amendment protections of free speech and religious freedom. In many parts of the world, even in the developed world, free speech rights are censored and regulated in a way that violates natural law and enshrines hierarchy or censorship that should be subject to the marketplace of ideas. I love that I can speak my mind in this country and not fear ultimate jeopardy for a viewpoint that may be deemed unfashionable.
A perfect union is not always linear, but the trajectory of the last 250 years has been toward continually refining our understanding of the Declaration of Independence, which held that “all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.”
That self-evident truth is based on the notion that “governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed,” and that remains the fundamental basis of our nation.
So as we begin the next 250 years, I think it’s necessary to carefully self-examine ourselves, noting that, to borrow biblical language, we have often “sinned and fallen short of the glory of God” (Romans 3:23) as a people and a nation. At the same time, we can rejoice in what America has meant to us, to the world, and for the force of good that it can continue to be…if we let it.
The American story has never been about perfection. It has been about the difficult work of becoming more faithful to the ideals that gave birth to this nation in the first place. That’s work worth continuing.




Dropping your blog. Keep your political views to yourself and going out of the way to bash the President is way over the line.
What a fool! TDS has overcome you I guess!
The answer to speech you don’t like is more speech, not threatening to boycott those you disagree with.
Actually he simply voiced his opinion and he is free to leave (vote with his feet). Just about the epitome of freedom of speech.
The Supreme Court has repeatedly ruled that this is a core element of Freedom of Speech.
But it’s a toxic society when we cannot even disagree – some retreat to their echo chambers (on both sides) because they cannot deal with dissenting opinion. It’s pathetic.
Is it about dissenting opinion or is it that I came for a miles/points blog but got a political spiel. it’s not pathetic, it’s just lack of interest.
cr, LALF has always been far more than a mere miles-and-points blog. If you want a sanitized, safe space devoid of commentary (you know, “clean” for MAGA, *cough*), there are plenty of sterile sites that just copy-and-paste press releases without any community, banter, or soul. To me, those places are hollow and dead; they are the equivalent of cracking open a static encyclopedia. LALF is a living, breathing, unpredictable beast. Hop on the ride or run away.
@Retired Gambler: I thought Trumpers were not supposed to be snowflakes? How sad that we cannot disagree – that you have to walk away and not even engage because you find it so troubling that Dear Leader is questioned.
You have to realize there is a financial cost to going political. Most businesses understand that and stay away from it. But your TDS won’t allow you to.
Losing customers is the end result of your choices. But I also understand you are smart enough to know it. But your TDS wouldn’t allow you to not add the comment about the attempts on Trumps life might not have been real.
There are people out there who still think the world is flat, you probably should add that too when discussing flights around the world.
Customers? What are you ‘buying’ from LALF? Nah, Matt isn’t losing any ‘business’ at all.
So he doesn’t get money from clicks?
Matthew? Care to comment?
These posts perform poorly and obviously aggravate readers – if I was driven only by pecuniary motive, I would not write them. But ultimately, if I self-censor for a few bucks, it’s not the brand or business I want to run.
Nominal at best; lose a few, gain a few.
I totally agree//this was to be a positive story?? but no you had to add horrid narcissistic/piggish/dotard are you on crack or just living in Calif has gotten to you with its brainwashing daily with lies about the other side!! Oh if the healthcare is great in Northern or anywhere in Europe or the UK –go live there and experience it esp when u get older,..You are really off the mark… People die over there waiting for CARE daily….
And plenty of people die on this side of the pond because profit-maximizing insurance companies deny them coverage or these folks go into massive amounts of debt/bankruptcy just to pay for life-saving care.
UK is doing just fine… if you’re wealthy. (Just like every other late-stage capitalist country.) This isn’t about right vs. left, it’s always been about rich vs. poor. Both the US and the UK must address systemic inequities if they want to get back on the path to relative ‘greatness.’ Also, of course the US should join the rest of the developed world and provide healthcare to its people. The fact that we still seek to exploit others over healthcare or housing or education is a societal failure.
TDS, short for Trump Devotion Syndrome, is a disorder in which the afflicted is unable or unwilling to accept the idea that Donald Trump may in fact have flaws, causing the afflicted to overreact in a bombastic manner whenever anyone anywhere suggests that Donald Trump is flawed or has done something flawed.
Trump staged his own assassination attempts??? Even to the point of telling the shooter to nick him in the ear??? You have become one sick, twisted and hateful person. It has ruined your ability to think and reason. Get some help, and quit patting yourself on the back for being a “voice of reason”. That flight departed long ago.
Have you tried ‘crying harder’?
Jcil ever hear of jack ruby and the CIA investigation concerning the JFK assassination?
To those who claim Trump’s bullet wound to the ear is staged, I dare you to replicate it with you being the test subject. Like or hate Trump, that was really a close call.
In fairness to Matthew, he didn’t say it was staged, he alluded to the theory.
And it’s Trump’s own maga right former supporters that have started this conspiracy theory to be addressed, not Matthew
No jcil, I didn’t say that…thank you.
I despise the Swedish attitudes (article above references Scandinavia)
1. They think that it’s better to win $1 million than to earn it. Their reasoning is that you must be evil if you earn $1 million. That is not true. Bill Gates was very smart and managed to co-create MS-DOS, which revolutionized personal and office computing. His innovation was certainly worth more than $100,000 per year.
2. Their health care system is extremely lazy. I met one Swedish surgeon on vacation and he said many do only one surgery per day and the ambitious ones do 2 surgeries. The type of surgery takes only 15 to 45 minutes to do so 2 surgeries can take a total of 3 hours (because it takes time to clean the room and to do the last minute physical exam to re-check everything).
2a. There was a Stockholm woman on Instagram whose nose was bitten by a dog. The entire nation of Sweden didn’t know how to reconstruct the nose so she had to go out of the country. That knowledge and skill is available in all time zones in the continental U.S. (meaning not every U.S. city has it but several do). This shows how primitive Sweden is.
3. Swedish people have rampant pre-marital sex at an illegally young age and don’t talk to each other. Both are true and documented online.
4. Sweden has far more income inequality than America. There are more Swedish billionaires per capita than the U.S. Washington state, home of Microsoft and Costco, has 12 billionaires. Sweden has 44 despite only a slightly larger population. Yet the average income in America is higher. So Americans are richer but not so unequal.
Part of that was my point – Sweden may do some things well, but if you are correct, that’s a rather big problem…all else equal (granted I had good insurance), I’d definitely want to fight virtually any health battle in the USA versus any other developed nation.
But Sweden made Minecraft and Ikea, so they’re better!!! (Joking, joking)
“rampant pre-marital sex”… OH MY!! *clutches pearls*
(When did all the pro-Putin-bots on here become such prudes?)
“ The assassination attempts against the current White House occupant, whether staged or real”
And you say TDS isn’t real.
You have sunk to a new low but if things don’t work out posting clickbait, the HuffPost is hiring. Of course you will have to hide that you have a wife and kids to be hired, but tell them you enjoy my films and they might consider your application. A straight white male has no place in their world.
Get over yourself with the TDS…my goodness it is so pathetic that you and others resort to that hollow charge when I clearly count up my reasons for not supporting Trump…and you actually have no valid comeback to his self-dealings, narcissism, foul mouth, and deficit-busting spending other than to cover your ears and cry out, “But I did gay porn!” I’m not impressed.
Concerning Butler, PA, I’m not the one saying it was staged…many on the alt right have.
As an attorney, I don’t see that Crooks had any motive, but I stop far short of declaring that it was staged.
Stop short? Stop short?
Why would you even consider it? But let’s play that game? Who would be involved? Did Crooks take the shot? Did someone else? If Trump was in on it, was he willing to risk the shot being an inch off and killing him? Sounds strange for a narcissist to risk that. Was Mr Comperatore really shot or not? Did Trump know he would be killed? And on and on.
Stop short is a strange way of saying you think it’s a possibility. By the way, being an attorney means nothing in this context unless you feel that makes you superior to others in regards to this discussion.
And I do enjoy reading your stories but you absolutely meet the definition of TDS and I’ll keep saying it as long as you keep being infected by it.
The motive of Thomas Matthew Crooks remains unknown. Despite conducting an extensive investigation that included a sustained search of his digital footprint, hundreds of interviews, and a review of his online activities, federal investigators have not found a clear political or ideological motive explaining his actions. That makes no sense to me…that’s all I am saying. At least with Luigi Mangione, we knew exactly where he was coming from.
It’s hard (no pun intended) to take seriously a guy who claims himself the king of gay porn productions and repeatedly reminds everyone here of it. It’s like a reality TV show star becoming President. Oh, wait. I guess it’s all part of the plan. You look like less of an idiot when surrounded by other idiots.
It’s almost as-if Kyle is a made-up alias that just astroturfs right-wing talking points on here… huh. No, no… he’s just a gay porn icon with a strong opinion, I mean, a ROCK-HARD opinion…
Well said, Matthew!
LOL.
To the Gambler and Kyle.. Oh my goodness for all the pearl clutching elevating your blood pressure. You really have to resort to name calling to get your point across, “TDS?’ You watch too much FOX News I believe. Come up with something more original. We’re over it. Expose yourself to something different for once. Something wrong with having a different opinion? I don’t agree with everything here either. Deal with it, you are free to leave this page and the website.
It’s a free country and Matthew is free to express his views any time he likes. By the way, since we all love Israel, Israel has universal healthcare. It would have been a more relevant example in our current times. People not having health care is a an American idea, (and no emergency rooms are not health care). No, that doesn’t mean I hate America for saying I like buying cheaper drugs when I am abroad.
Well a travel writer needs to write about all the local conditions. Readers need to know who’s running the local third-world politics, doubtless enriching themselves and their cronies at the expense of the population. Whether it’s a top-hatted African dictator, a South-American strongman or the Trump kleptocracy.
Maybe we should have turned comments off.
Comments are more fun.
Can’t take the heat? Stay outta tha kitchen, SW!
Matthew it is not that you have an opinion but one with HATE and ANGER in it… That is the disagreement I have with your TOXIC words… Stoking the fire with your angry words is not good for anyone esp the crazies out there that have tried to harm our President Trump!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!tho u think the incidents were ??fake TDS is taking over your brain for sure……………..Being a lawyer and living in calif… not a good combo for TDS
Laughing so hard that a MAGA goose step marcher is triggered about others using “toxic” words. Oh, the irony of it all, lol. Get a pair, Dee. Or, oops, whatever it is you need to cope with the sheer horror of being challenged.
Now, Matthew…you know that we all love you more than our own luggage, and since this is your page, you are more than entitled to post your opinions as you see fit. With the country as divided as it is, describing President Trump as a “narcissistic, piggish dotard” will only serve to alienate half your viewers and certainly doesn’t do anything to heal the division that you lament in your article. For the record, my opinion would have been the same had you described President Biden in the same manner. But again, it’s your page and thus, your rules, and while I would not have used the words you chose to use, I would vigorously defend your right to do so.
The ship of civility sailed ages ago. You reap what you sow.
I doubt “Scott” is even a real person. Who takes the time to include a “photo” of “themselves” in their comment? Performative outrage.
I am indeed a real person and you are an unhinged loon. You seriously need to get a life, move out from your parent’s basement, and get some professional help with your obvious mental health issues.
“Heal the division,” he said. “Vigorously defend your right,” he said.
Wow, Scott. That thin veneer of civility peeled off faster than a cheap luggage tag. Thanks for proving Antwerp’s point about the ship sailing. Take a deep breath, bucko.
Nah, just affording you the same level of courtesy and respect that you have shown everyone else on this thread. If anyone needs to take a deep breath and a step back from the keyboard, it’s you…bucko.
Now you’ve evolved from mere ‘bucko’ to a full-blown Buckaroo. Happy 250th! Yeehaw.
I can live with being a full blown buckaroo! I guess we will just have agree to disagree…and that’s ok. Happy 250th to you, too!!
‘Buckle up, Buckaroo!’
America
“Let us be lovers, we’ll marry our fortunes together
I’ve got some real estate here in my bag”
So we bought a pack of cigarettes and Mrs. Wagner’s pies
And walked off to look for America
“Kathy,” I said, as we boarded a Greyhound in Pittsburgh
“Michigan seems like a dream to me now
It took me four days to hitch-hike from Saginaw
I’ve come to look for America”
Laughing on the bus
Playing games with the faces
She said the man in the gabardine suit was a spy
I said, “Be careful, his bow tie is really a camera”
“Toss me a cigarette, I think there’s one in my raincoat”
“We smoked the last one an hour ago”
So I looked at the scenery, she read her magazine
And the moon rose over an open field
“Kathy, I’m lost,” I said, thought I knew she was sleeping.
“I’m empty and aching and I don’t know why”
Counting the cars on the New Jersey Turnpike
They’ve all come to look for America
Paul Simon
Amazing America is still unimaginable without traveling by car, train and plane!
Romans 13:1
Let every person be subject to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and those that exist have been instituted by God.
Proverbs 21:1
The king’s heart is a stream of water in the hand of the Lord; he turns it wherever he will.
Colossians 1:16–17
For in him all things were created: things in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or powers or rulers or authorities; all things have been created through him and for him. He is before all things, and in him all things hold together.
Delta Jesus has spoken. Of what? I have no clue.
So far the critics of Matthew here consist of a Gay Porn producer turned MAGA lover, a grammatical MAGA hot mess in Dee who talks as if from a trailer park, and a Delta obsessed premium focused dude who is resorting to biblical lessons in defense of a rapist and thief. The irony is actually quite comical. Who could even script this?
We doin’ random Bible quotes to justify MAGA?
Please consider: She lusted after her lovers, whose genitals were like those of donkeys and whose emission was like that of horses.” Ezekiel 23:20
The left has no problem whatsoever with Israel existing. We just want the same right to be extended to Palestine. Of course Palestine shouldn’t be allowed to destroy Israel, but that goes both ways.
A two-state solution is the only solution.
Yes, also, huge difference between supporting a particular party or politician (be it Trump, Republicans, Bibi, Obama, Putin, Xi, etc.), verses the entire people or right of a nation to exist and/or defend itself when attacked and/or to self-determine through elections and representative government, etc. Some will say if you don’t full-throatily support Bibi, then you’re an anti-semite, but that’s as absurd as the Chinese suggesting you’re xenophobic for wanting to know more about the origins of the pandemic. So, the “Israel” issue is far more nuanced than a simple litmus test, yet it can, has, and will be used to divide and conquer as it was in the Democratic party in 2024, and likely already is driving a wedge with some of the MAGA base, now. (“No new wars…” /s). It’s a hot-potato.
Oh lord, TD is now telling us Bible verses. Just stop. Now. Woow… Those of you saying “TDS.” Stop watching Fox News and use your own imagination for name calling. Oh the irony of Trump supporters being so up in a wad and bent of out shape over toxic language, hate, and divisive speech. As an example, Trump talksed so much about annihilating Iran that no one even listens to our joke of a leader any longer. Oh but Biden did it too right? Trump is such an amazing diplomat. Matthew keep up the good work. You may have “TDS” but you are doing great at triggering these sensitive Trump snowflakes. Poor things can”t handle something other than Fox News. It’s his page guys. I am sure you will never visit this website again. Fine.
You are right. Thomas Matthew Crooks is a big enigma. You would think that Trump would talk endlessly about the attempt on this life since he loves ruminating over how he has been wronged. Something odd there.
Hey Matt, I know I’ve been mostly mocking the haters above (which has been pure joy), but I just wanted to say thank you for writing what is one of the most balanced, honest reflections of what this 250th means to a lot of us. It really is bittersweet. We must not cede patriotism to the bigots and the exclusionary backlash of this past decade, which I’d argue has been a step backward. And yet, the pendulum will swing again. The work is never done, and we must keep learning (and traveling!)
Yes, thank you Matt. Would have been a more fun discussion about how best to be that shining city on the hill, but alas. In the meantime, Federalist #10 remains as prescient as ever. Here’s to 250 more!
Well said, Peter. Madison spoke specifically of the unequal distribution of property leading to such factions. Since we can’t eliminate the causes without destroying liberty, his advice was to control the effects, which means we have to negotiate, form coalitions, and compromise. Apparently, some above would rather to secede. *sigh* Cheers to 250 more!
We could do health care better far better in this country and the work-life balance in Scandinavia strikes me as far superior to the US, without compromising productivity.
I think we could adopt a lot from Scandanavia, but I’m not sure it wouldnt compromise productivity. There are reasonable tradeoffs with the choices we make, lets not pretend like they dont exist.