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Home » United Airlines » Don’t Touch My Husband! Woman Shoves Flight Attendant For Waking Up Hubby, Now Faces Jail Time
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Don’t Touch My Husband! Woman Shoves Flight Attendant For Waking Up Hubby, Now Faces Jail Time

Matthew Klint Posted onNovember 16, 2021November 14, 2023 55 Comments

a woman sitting in an airplane

In an odd story that is about masks but not really about masks, an angry wife faces jail time after repeatedly pushing a flight attendant who awakened her husband and reminded him to wear his mask during an overnight flight.

Touchy Wife Unloads On Flight Attendant Who Touched Husband

The incident occurred on June 29, 2021 on a United Airlines flight from Anchorage (ANC) to San Francisco (SFO) but Debby Dutton of Cypress, Texas has just been charged in federal court with interference with a flight crew member.

On the United flight, flight attendants had warned passengers (an announcement I’ve routinely heard) that should their mask slip down during the redeye flight, the crew would be obligated to wake them up in order to adjust it.

A couple were asleep and apparently the man’s mask slipped down over his nose. According to the FBI report, a flight attendant tapped him on the shoulder and asked him to pull his mask up. He did.

But the act of waking the man up irritated his wife. Dutton jumped up and purportedly screamed:

“You don’t touch my husband! Why you wake him?”

The flight attendant explained the procedure but the woman continued to scream, then approached the flight attendant and pushed them, sending the flight attendant backwards. Dutton pushed the flight attendant once more before sitting down.

The captain radioed ahead to SFO and police met the aircraft upon arrival and made a report. According to an FBI affidavit, two witnesses onboard saw the flight attendant pushed by Dutton.

Dutton will appear in court today and faces up to 20 years in prison, if convicted, and a fine of at least $35,000.

I’m sure I’m not the only one thinking Airplane!

“Jim never has a second cup of coffee at home!”

CONCLUSION

We can laugh, but once again a flight attendant was allegedly assaulted for simply doing their job. This is not a laughing matter and while 20 years seems far too harsh, a large fine will hopefully be a powerful lesson not to push your flight attendant.

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Matthew is an avid traveler who calls Los Angeles home. Each year he travels more than 200,000 miles by air and has visited more than 135 countries. Working both in the aviation industry and as a travel consultant, Matthew has been featured in major media outlets around the world and uses his Live and Let's Fly blog to share the latest news in the airline industry, commentary on frequent flyer programs, and detailed reports of his worldwide travel.

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55 Comments

  1. Alex Conway Reply
    November 16, 2021 at 1:20 pm

    She should have just kept her mouth shut! Her husband immediately corrected himself (as he should have done), so wasn’t in the wrong in any way. I’m British, but, my lord, has America gone crazy in the last few years.

    • Dave Edwards Reply
      November 16, 2021 at 2:17 pm

      There is a reason why we kicked your Euroass 250 years ago. We wanted nothing to do with you people and saved your rear multiple times at the cost of many American lives. And our reward if you sending us back trash like the wife of the “Prince” who dressed up like a Nazi and trashed one of our suites in Vegas.

      How about you don’t comment on how we do things and we won’t keep losing our cash putting that “Queen” of yours in our Dead Pools?

      • PBB Reply
        November 16, 2021 at 9:23 pm

        Let me see.
        America is number 9ne?
        What in. Incarceration?Child mortality in first world countries. Opoid numbers?
        One of last to get rid of slavery, actually it’s still allowed in your constitution. Woman’s rights. A joke. Originators of apartheid.
        But the best at commercialism.
        Cannot live up to treaties, ask the native Americans.
        Maybe you learn that all countries have good and bad. Its just that you don’t acknowledge your bad which is why you are doomed to repeat it.

      • American't Reply
        November 17, 2021 at 4:11 pm

        Thank you for allowing me to partake if the most idiotic comment I’ve seen yet.

        On behalf of Americans who are slowly losing sanity, I apologize for this person’s existence.

    • Dannyboy Reply
      November 16, 2021 at 6:48 pm

      Alex, it’s the F**KING liberals that have gone crazy. LIBERALISM IS A MENTAL DISORDER.

      • Yo mamma Reply
        November 16, 2021 at 7:46 pm

        It’s so easy to blame liberals. Libra’s say the same about the far right. The world is mad and nothing will ever be fixed if everyone is blaming the other side. I bet you are just as fck’f up as the anyone else.

        • Acura Reply
          November 17, 2021 at 2:50 pm

          it is true that we need to come together but the far-left continues to think we will govern this country by minority rule. Not how it works.

          • Food for Thought
            November 20, 2021 at 7:07 am

            You mean the far left AND the far right. Unfortunately both far left and right extremists on both sides have gone off of the deep end. It’s like a Bell Curve. The far left and the far right who are actually not so many in comparison to the majority of Americans make either party look ridiculous. Just the normal, average human does not feel the need to record everything on their phones. Sine the insane right and left pull out their phones for everything, they make either party look badly. This is what the world sees. They don’t get to see the logical, normal and mass majority who are actually sane. I am independent, However, I have friends who are Republican, and Democrat and they all seem to be sane enough and adult enough to accept differences. If you look at the sources of either party who record every chance they get, look at the insanity. If you fall within the mass majority of sane folks, do they pull out their phones every chance they get to record the attention-seeking annoyance like the far right or the far left? Just some food for thought. 🙂

          • Acura
            November 20, 2021 at 2:53 pm

            I am also independent and have never recorded anything. Most of my family is far-left. The point about minority rule that I was making was about making every bathroom gender neutral, and so on. Minority rule doesn’t work for me.

    • G.R.Egoville Reply
      November 18, 2021 at 12:18 am

      Yes Sir, America has indeed gone crazy. From the senile boob in the White House to a nasty passenger on a plane in America CRAZY rules.
      I say this with shame and embarrassment as an American

      • Kev finn Reply
        November 18, 2021 at 1:13 pm

        Which senile boob? We”ve had several! Unless your early onset Alzheimers is clouding OUR recent history

    • Kev finn Reply
      November 18, 2021 at 1:11 pm

      My sincerest apologies for the southeastern white trash history buffoonery. But as the world has known since the departure of Texas’s last great govenor with balls,Anne Richards… Texas is No longer the ” Brain trust west of the Mississippi it once was & NO longer known for producing great leaders like LBJ….lol…As it’s been run into the ground by idiots like Abbott,& Cruz. & 60 seconds mouths with 6 second brains has been running the place since baby Bush…lol….After formulative years there I moved OUT when Bush moved in the Gov.’s mansion & the IRS took Willies golf course,Armadillo world headquarters closed & Stevie Ray Vaughan died. Easy to see why Brits prefer La Florida…NOT exactly a brain trust state either…lol…But U won’t find 1 in the SE,US…lol…ONLY some milder weather than the rest of the US, Beautiful beaches & blue water NOT on that side of the Mississippi river

  2. Santastico Reply
    November 16, 2021 at 1:38 pm

    Let’s Go Brandon!!!! Maybe he should replace the mandate from masks to Duct Tape so it won’t slip down while people are sleeping.

    • Dave Edwards Reply
      November 16, 2021 at 2:20 pm

      Just a quick THANK YOU to Santastico for all the common sense additions he makes to this wonderful comment section. And to Matt as well for allowing free speech, something the far left fringe that somehow found their way here disagrees with.

      Let’s Go Brandon! FJB!

      • Acura Reply
        November 16, 2021 at 2:21 pm

        +1

      • Aaron Reply
        November 16, 2021 at 2:36 pm

        The crazy do flock together…

        • Acura Reply
          November 16, 2021 at 2:48 pm

          Birds of a feather.

          And being called crazy by the brainwashed is expected and meaningless. Throughout history only about 5% of people were speaking the truth and trying to wake up the rest. No difference here.

          • Aaron
            November 17, 2021 at 12:46 am

            You ain’t part of that 5% and never will be, hon.

            FDT

          • Acura
            November 17, 2021 at 2:19 pm

            Actually I most certainly am. Either way, Trump’s economy would be MUCH better than the mess we are in now. Plus the Platinum Plan

            https://cdn.donaldjtrump.com/public-files/press_assets/president-trump-platinum-plan-final-version.pdf

            What is Biden doing like this?

            Zero. And destroying tens of millions financially in the process.

            Wrong side of history.

    • Acura Reply
      November 16, 2021 at 2:25 pm

      Yes, agree with Dave. Thanks Santastico!

  3. Charles Reply
    November 16, 2021 at 2:13 pm

    Give it up SANTASTICO! Is it even possible for you to NOT interject your pitiful attempt at belittling the President? This is a TRAVEL blog. Miserable, frustrated little man.

    • Acura Reply
      November 16, 2021 at 2:21 pm

      “This is a TRAVEL blog.” yeah, and masks are required for travel and Brandon’s admin is responsible for the travel mask mandate. So all’s fair in love and war. Trump was belittled about 5 billion times per hour for over four years straight, but you can’t handle LGB? the snowflake is showing. Chill.

    • Aaron Reply
      November 16, 2021 at 2:37 pm

      Trolls gotta keep on trolling.

      • Acura Reply
        November 16, 2021 at 2:47 pm

        UA-CCP is much more fun. He may also overuse the word troll but at least he brings his perspective to the table instead of commenting ‘troll troll troll’ on every article. Do better.

        • Aaron Reply
          November 17, 2021 at 12:48 am

          Eh, trolls like you aren’t worth that much extra effort. And don’t need much more to describe what you are doing.

          • Acura
            November 17, 2021 at 2:08 pm

            I’ve mentioned you in my reply to Matthew below. All the best.

    • Santastico Reply
      November 16, 2021 at 4:18 pm

      Give it up? Why? You gave up living in your basement. There is life out there. Go try it. Covid won’t follow you.

  4. Matthew Klint Reply
    November 16, 2021 at 2:53 pm

    Folks, no name calling please. Let’s be civil and respectul, please.

    • Laurie Reply
      November 16, 2021 at 2:59 pm

      Calm down. He didn’t say anything so terrible. He spoke the truth about how crazy Americans are behaving. I am an American and am afraid to fly and now with these nut cakes that are flying I’m not getting on a plane so fast anymore. Everyone needs to chill out!!

      • Ryan Reply
        November 16, 2021 at 3:48 pm

        The response by Dave Edwards is out of this word disrespectful and by no means civil. To outright bully another person is complete trash. To use the phrase “How about you don’t comment” is about as much of an asshole as one can get… and the comments section of this blog is killing any interest and enjoyment in reading otherwise great content.

        One might say “just don’t read the comments”.. but in blogs that are moderated, or where people can stay on topic, people with passion or knowledge of the subject add value to the article. Would be nice to read the comments on this blogs well articulated articles, but it seems here that any article on LiveAndLetsFly that focuses on “social issues” quickly devolves into Ad Hominem attacks against other posters or political leaders instead of truly debating the issues. What’s worse is the comments section has also devolved into the spreading of easily debunked falsehoods and misinformati0n. If this is a microcosm of America, I feel for our future.

        The sad part is that Matt’s blog is easily the top blog on BoardingArea but the comments section is just trash.

        • Matthew Klint Reply
          November 16, 2021 at 3:53 pm

          Please stay tuned. I recognize that the comments are truly stretching the line of decency. Personal attacks will have no place on this blog.

        • Dave Edwards Reply
          November 16, 2021 at 4:26 pm

          But calling Americans crazy is ok to you like the original poster did?

          I have no problem with Matt deleting stuff he doesn’t find acceptable as long as it’s fair both ways, which I’m sure he will. The other option is to require a Facebook account to comment so people can’t hide behind fake accounts. I think we all believe it actually is Joe Biden posting here.

          A simple look will show 1 poster from NYC started so much of the debate on here with his constant insulting of anyone who disagrees with his fringe far left points of view. And his misinformation was addressed by Kyle on Sunday.

          • Acura
            November 17, 2021 at 2:51 pm

            It was nice to see an admin actually address it for once.

        • Acura Reply
          November 17, 2021 at 8:44 pm

          Robert F. Kennedy, Jr., regarding the COVID “misinformation” narrative:

          “It’s a Euphemism For Any Statement That Departs From Official Government Policy” – “They Are Engineering Destruction of Democracy Worldwide”

          He’s a Kennedy.. might know a thing or two.

          https://twitter.com/Kukicat7/status/1459563355803377667

          like the caption says, fact check him.

      • Matthew Klint Reply
        November 16, 2021 at 3:54 pm

        Personal attacks are never okay. Period.

        Let that be a warning to all.

        • Santastico Reply
          November 16, 2021 at 4:45 pm

          @Matrhew: a couple comments.
          I take personal attacks to my post as a way to make my voice stronger. Brainwashed people that have no arguments will attack others. That is their way of defending something they were told to believe. I have no problem at all if someone attacks my posts.

          I understand your concern about the way the comments on the blog is going but you should expect that. You chose a different way than many other travel bloggers that only care about credit cards. You chose to report every single incident that happens inside a plane and we all know these incidents ar 99.99% mask related. You have nothing similar to report before this pandemic and this stupid mask mandate. People are stressed and done with this BS. Thus, since you report issues caused by mask incidents you should expect people having strong opinions here.

        • Acura Reply
          November 17, 2021 at 2:01 pm

          Matthew:

          Sincere apologies for the personal attacks that I have made in the past. They won’t occur again. As you know, both of my grandfathers fought in WWII and one was severely injured. He died a short time after, when my Dad was in his early twenties. Obviously, I never got to meet him. He was decorated and received many awards and positive citations, including receiving the Purple Heart. 

          I say all of this to say that there are those of us who are military families who won’t let this country go down without a fight. COVID is the biggest psyop in human history. Period. The time, resources, and effort put into this plan are staggering. 

          Nevertheless, my apologies for calling Charles a snowflake, as well. People ARE stressed. This is an ACTUAL war, so we were using everything we’ve got, including personal attacks, which I do regret now. 

          I do apologize for acting disrespectful on your wonderful aviation content. It’s your life’s work so it must be challenging to have discord and discourse. I, too, love aviation. It didn’t work out for me career wise, but I still have an affinity for it. 

          Yes, you are right, the comments section has become trash, and I’ve contributed to that. Some of us actually care about what’s happening in the world and are sincerely worried for the future of humanity. I am gay and in my late thirties, so I’ll never have kids of my own. Not interested in using a surrogate at this point. However, I’m a recent uncle and I worry about what kind of world my niece will inherit. 

          To be fair, UA-NYC did start this. And as we all know, he has been more out of control than any of us. I only resorted to personal attacks due to the constant provoking by him, and now Aaron, more recently.

          Sincerest apologies for stooping to UA’s (and Aaron’s) level, and to that negative vibration. You checked me with your comments on this one. You snapped me out of the disrespect. My bad for blowing up your comment section, for real. 

          I’ve been in my ego on this site because I actually care about the future of humanity and the future of the world. If people legitimately think I’m a troll, then you’re entitled to your opinion. I realize my views are considered extreme. I just sincerely felt that UA-NYC’s extreme views had to be countered. I’m not in the business of being wrong.

          However, most of us are not on the same playing field. We must be in different versions of the matrix, or something. Like Matthew, I have faith in the unseen. I’ve discovered in my spiritual journey that there is actually life beyond the matrix.

          It sounds crazy to most of you, as you’re still in the matrix and haven’t done any spiritual work to know otherwise. A huge number of Americans are without spirituality or faith in their lives. It’s all ego. And no spirit. That is the issue with the human race. We’ve been infected by a spiritual malignancy.

          Furthermore, many of you have been programmed by the corporate media, big pharma, big tech, and countless other power structures. Propagandized your entire lives, and you don’t even know it. It’s not your fault, you didn’t know better. But on our end, it’s actually really hard for people like me to relate to y’all.

          I saw a meme yesterday on Instagram about ‘Branch Covidians’. There’s certainly some truth in that. And yes, I agree with the “Houston, we have a problem” crowd. And I don’t mean that as a personal attack. I know COVID has caused much heartbreak. I’m not an empty soul.

          Civil discourse has gone out the window though, and even though many won’t admit it, it’s due to the left. Me, I fight for what’s morally right. I am actually a gay independent. Right now, I align with conservative policies because this country is OUT OF CONTROL and falling apart. However, that doesn’t mean that I do not agree with the left at times, as I do.

          Despite my behavior, I hope someone got something out of the links that I’ve shared and thoughts that I’ve typed. I wish y’all all the best in this war on human consciousness. Ego seeks to divide, spirit seeks to unify. I hope everyone focuses on the non-religious trinity of mind, body, and spirit. SPIRIT. It’s a thing.

          Finally, for those spiritually inclined, you’ll love these two articles by Marianne Williamson. She was demonized during the election but she gets it. She’s speaking the TRUTH in these two pieces. Some of y’all need to go to church. I pray that many of you will.

          All the best,
          Acura

          https://mariannewilliamson.substack.com/p/when-the-decision-to-change-is-the

          https://mariannewilliamson.substack.com/p/a-minute-before-extinctionor-a-minute

  5. Lol Reply
    November 16, 2021 at 4:02 pm

    lol look at all the snowflakes who have to use a meme to refer to Biden. Who hurt you? Where does it hurt? Find JFK yet?

    • Santastico Reply
      November 16, 2021 at 4:48 pm

      Snowflake is your media that had to create a meme to hide the truth that people were saying about him. Just show the what people think of him and no meme is created. BTW, since his supporters are snowflakes I think this meme is much better than F… Trump that you guys used all the time.

  6. DCA Will Always Be "National" Reply
    November 16, 2021 at 4:16 pm

    This comments section…[Michael Jackson eating popcorn GIF]

  7. Carl WV Reply
    November 16, 2021 at 5:45 pm

    So few comments having anything to do with the post may be why some are limiting or doing away with comments. Personally I don’t come here for 95% political back and forth.

    • cargocult Reply
      November 16, 2021 at 6:36 pm

      This is yet another story about mask mandates driving people crazy. It’s very much related to the ongoing culture war. Matthew makes posts like this knowing full well what sort of reaction it will elicit.

      • Aaron Reply
        November 17, 2021 at 12:50 am

        Nah, these nutjobs seem crazy even without the mask mandate.

        • cargocult Reply
          November 17, 2021 at 7:33 am

          That’s not a very Foucauldian thing to say.

          https://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2021/05/liberals-covid-19-science-denial-lockdown/618780/
          https://spectatorworld.com/life/liberalism-really-mental-illness/
          https://www.politico.com/magazine/story/2017/05/09/why-liberals-arent-as-tolerant-as-they-think-215114/
          https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/unique-everybody-else/202103/personality-traits-mental-illness-and-ideology
          https://mankindquarterly.org/archive/issue/60-4/3

  8. Quo Vadis Reply
    November 16, 2021 at 5:57 pm

    Surely, ‘Airplane’ was one of the best movies ever (along with ‘The Princess Bride’).

    The looneys on this thread, wow. The Lord’s second coming can’t be too far away (let’s hope).

    • Acura Reply
      November 17, 2021 at 2:48 pm

      We WILL be proven correct. I have zero doubt.

  9. Edward Reply
    November 16, 2021 at 5:58 pm

    I used to enjoy this blog and the comments. Then came the MAGA crowd and trashed it all to H***. No doubt this is the same crowd causing the frequent disturbances on the airlines as they’ve proven over and over again that they do not know how to properly behave in public.

    • Acura Reply
      November 17, 2021 at 2:38 pm

      Actually, not “MAGA”, as explained above, and haven’t flown since COVID. But thanks for your opinion.

  10. Joe Chivas Reply
    November 16, 2021 at 6:52 pm

    What a crazy group of readers you have here.

  11. Stuart Reply
    November 16, 2021 at 8:59 pm

    I just want some ice cream on AA with a glass cup. I guess my needs are simpler.

  12. Lance A Windel Reply
    November 16, 2021 at 11:38 pm

    Not sure where the fines go, but they need to be given to the flight attendants for putting up with this. Kind of a mandatory tip for being such a bad passenger.

    • Matthew Klint Reply
      November 17, 2021 at 12:13 am

      Agreed.

  13. Rick Banzhoff Reply
    November 19, 2021 at 4:58 pm

    I’m not so sure why this woman is so upset that the flight attendant “touched” her husband. Surely, the flight attendant didn’t have any interest in her husband other than doing her job. I’ll bet this woman is a hoot at a party with a couple of drinks in her.

  14. emercycrite Reply
    November 28, 2021 at 4:17 am

    What a stupid woman.

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