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Bringing Family On Business Trips

Kyle Stewart Posted onJune 23, 2019September 14, 2021 7 Comments

The more I travel for work, the more I long to have my family with me. But just what does that look like and what are the ethical implications of bringing the family along on business trips?


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Being Away From Home Can Be Hard

This year, more than others in the past, my work visits tend to be to one city for about four nights. My daughter is just five and at a critical age. There is a real struggle between being successful and providing a life for her that I always wanted for her with being present enough for it to matter. For those that have the luxury of both, I salute you.

My father was gone most of my childhood four nights every week on business, yet we have a very close relationship and always have; being apart does not necessitate a bad parental relationship nor does coming home every night from work necessitate a good one.

All the same, the older she gets, the more I see her growing up from the little girl that would beg me to read her a story when I was all too tired from a long day.

I’m not going to miss out on these critical years.

Lucy in the lobby
Lucy in a lobby

Ethical Implications

The biggest challenge when bringing the family along on business trips are the ethical implications. Business trips are paid for by the company and are not mini-vacations. Often, this couldn’t be clearer, but if I were to take my daughter to Orlando during a convention and then to Disney after meetings are finished for the day, is that ok?

Often, the concern does not necessarily arise from the act of having family present on a business trip but the implied limitations family can put on an employee there solely to conduct business. It would be improper to avoid dinner with clients to spend time with family if that’s the reason an employee is there.

The issue is typically more with perception from co-workers than anything else. With social media as pervasive as it is, co-workers may misinterpret an occasional inclusion of family as misusing company funds. That doesn’t mean there is actually an issue with it but perception is the reality.

Does Management Approve?

Management may not condone bringing the family along on business trips but should. I am fortunate to work for a company that does allow my family to join me from time-to-time and I will be careful not to abuse that privilege. Other companies I have worked for have given me the latitude to bring them along on occasion as long as there was no interference with my work.

That being said, management should be consulted prior to family joining an employee on a business trip. In my experience, being open and honest with my employer usually leads to an embrace of the concept. Several times, my employer has suggested I take them out for dinner on the corporate card. Again, moderation and honesty are key.

Separating Costs

Another concern is whether ethical charges are being incurred solely in connection with the employee’s business requirements and the nature of out of town work.

Did the employee order a large pizza on the company card to treat his family or would he have spent the same amount anyway? Did the employee take the same rental car they would normally book or upgrade for one that fits their family more comfortably? Was the hotel chosen in relation to the convenience for client visits or due to the pool?

Here are some basic guidelines I keep in place:

  • Don’t change any parameters of normal business bookings (use the same hotel rooms, rental car categories and flight booking criteria)
  • Do not alter spending on meals to accommodate family
  • Make everything clearly above reproach
  • When in doubt, pay out of pocket

Work/Personal Boundaries

My, then girlfriend now wife, joined me on a business trip to Las Vegas early in our relationship. She respected that it was a work trip for me and I made time for her when work was done. It was fine. My wife has been understanding on the few business trips she has joined me, my daughter is happy with a pool and a new city.

The same boundaries that are in place when working from home have to be respected by families traveling with the employee. Business calls, computer time and meetings have to be separate from family time. If something comes up for business, the family has to understand.

Employees that have inexact personal and work boundaries will find it difficult to manage. Families can feel ignored, employees can be distracted while they should be focusing on work – boundaries are important. Families should discuss them in advance, be clear and enforce them.

Lucy loved the Sofitel Luang Prabang pool
Lucy loved the Sofitel Luang Prabang pool

Conclusion

It’s a joy to bring my family on work trips though it may be less fun for them. When the opportunity arises to bring them along, it suits their schedule and my employer approves, I am happy for them to join. I encourage other employees to consider this approach and spend more time with their families while working out of town. It creates an unusual reprieve for the constant road warrior and creates a new environment for their loved ones.

Have you taken your family with you on a business trip? What has your experience been? How do you balance home/work life? Does your employer approve or disapprove?

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Kyle Stewart

Kyle is a freelance travel writer with contributions to Time, the Washington Post, MSNBC, Yahoo!, Reuters, Huffington Post, MapHappy, Live And Lets Fly and many other media outlets. He is also co-founder of Scottandthomas.com, a travel agency that delivers "Travel Personalized." He focuses on using miles and points to provide a premium experience for his wife and daughter. Email: sherpa@thetripsherpa.com

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7 Comments

  1. Paolo Reply
    June 23, 2019 at 8:57 am

    When I was an employer of many traveling staff, I would encourage them, if desired, to take spouses, lovers/SOs, as well as to arrive a bit early ( and/or to stay on after the work activity, on their own arrangements). I wasn’t being magnanimous in these policies: I wanted staff to be productive, relaxed and happy, and to be there for the long term rather than burn out.
    Very, very few ever abused those policies and it made for a more harmonious and profitable work environment.

  2. Aztec Reply
    June 23, 2019 at 10:07 am

    I knew a coworker who once had a client agree to pay for 4 transatlantic economy tickets for him and his family instead of 1 business class ticket for just him. He ended up staying longer than if he had traveled alone which ended up benefitting the client, having him available in the same time zone for an extended period of time.

    By the way, very well written article. Kudos.

  3. Steve S Reply
    June 23, 2019 at 4:47 pm

    My employers so far have been pretty rigid on this. You have to get approval directly from the CEO to extend a business trip for personal reasons, so the requests are metered out sparingly. But it’s a very hard no that your family stays with you during the period you are there on business, not even in a separate hotel room paid for out of your pocket…maybe someday…

    Of course this didn’t apply to a couple people two levels up the food chain from me. Bringing their wives from Europe to San Francisco and having them come out for dinner/drinks…

  4. Gizmosdad Reply
    June 23, 2019 at 4:59 pm

    I absolutely agree with this post and the previous comments. Often the flights are cheaper if I leave on a Thursday or Friday than leaving on Saturday/Sunday for a meeting on Monday, and so I loose a weekend to save the company some money (even accounting for the extra $$ for hotel rooms over the weekend.) A few times I year I will bring my wife along and enjoy whatever city we are in over the weekend, and she’ll either work from the hotel while I’m at my meetings, or will fly back home.
    We don’t abuse the corporate credit card and in fact we usually pay for the weekend meals from our personal credit cards (we’d be using these same cards while eating out if we were at home..) Sometimes if I know that I’ll be returning to a location several times, I’ll travel solo the first few trips to understand different neighborhoods in my destination, and then will bring the wife along on one trip to a good neighborhood.

  5. Chris Reply
    June 23, 2019 at 8:44 pm

    I have my own company so its much easier to bring. Of course cannot expense their costs. I used to travel with 1 kid for 2-3 weeks each year. My son then 8-9 would stay sometimes a full day at the hotel. He would have lunch at the excutive lounge. Order room service. One time I came back a bit later and he was already at the happy hour of the club lounge (no alochol of course for him) but he did finish already 5 cans of cola. That said, 1 or 2 pax in a hotel is no additional expense 🙂

  6. MeanMeosh Reply
    June 23, 2019 at 11:29 pm

    When I worked at my former employer, I brought my wife along on training trips a few times, usually by extending the trip a couple of days on either side. The company’s policy specifically permitted it as long as any additional costs were separated out as personal expenses. If anything it saved my employer on airfare because a weekend stay lowered the costs for my (business) portion. I’m sure my wife enjoyed the free time during the day, and we did some fun stuff like dinner and a Broadway show after class. I agree with both your post and some of the comments, it’s a little thing that makes business travel more bearable, and employees more loyal; seems like a win-win as long as the privilege isn’t abused.

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